Three are not a crowd for Megan Meyer, her husband, Michael Flores, and her ex-Hubbís, Tyler.
It is the smartest way to coparent.
But the zers are not a little fashion. And no, Tyler and Michael are not “brothers husbands” or some other spin on “Sister Wives” who would share Megan as a family -style entry.
Instead, the trio is among the growing number of non -conformist people, who, instead of spreading the functions of mother and father after divorce, leave their past problems and coexist happy for the benefit of the Kiddos and their wallets.
The platonic piece lives together, raising all 3-year-olds from Megan and Tyler, Ryann, as well as Megan 18-month-old son with Michael-Sota the same roof.
“It’s a [lifestyle of] The comfort, “Megan, 25, a mother staying in the house of South Carolina, told The Post.” It takes my daughter’s parents again to the same house and financially only makes sense. “
She and Michael, project manager, save $ 1,000 monthly by dividing the cost of their three -bedroom, three -year -old three bedrooms with Tyler, 26, who works in police.
And, although it works for this happy atypical family, Kerrie Mohr, therapist of the 25 -year -old NYC relationship, warns that the economic arrangement, although atypical, is not absolutely for everyone.
“The two parents need to have enough emotional maturity to live with their ex, as well as their new partner,” advised the Tribeca expert.
The Psych Pro explains in the publication that its practice, a good place therapy, has experienced an increase in co-residents from the pandemic, especially in Gotham, where it is cheaper to become with an ex (even if they come with a new Plus-one) instead of having it alone.
Apart from savings, Mohr says that the well -being of children should be everyone’s central concern.
“For this life situation to benefit children, all adults must cure the wounds of their previous relationship to start -off [co-living] Relationship, “he advised.
“Set up respectful boundaries, present clear communication strategies and focus on your” Why? “They are all key to succeed,” Mohr continued. “Your” Why? “It’s your northern star, the reason you are aside problems and sharing a home with your ex and your new partner.”
For Tyler, Ryann, whom he calls “Daddy’s Little Girl”, is his northern star.
“When Megan and I split for the first time, it was very difficult to live apart from my daughter,” he says in the publication. “I spent many lonely nights crying.”
After the four -year marriage ended in 2023, Megan and the baby left the house they shared with Tyler in Tennessee and moved to California. There, Megan reactivated a romance with Michael, his high school love. The couple married and soon became pregnant with their son.
But when Tyler did not find a job or affordable housing in Golden State, he and the newly married were agreed to become a home teammates in Hilton Head, South Carolina.
And, despite a little discomfort among the exes, Michael says that its infrequent configuration, but welcoming is sweet.
“Megan and Tyler argue as brothers. This will never change,” he made fun, however, that he and his wife’s former spouse are outbreaks.
“We started playing video games, going to church as a family and eating meals together,” Michael said of his “solid” connection by Tyler and Tyler. “We became friends to be parents.”
And to avoid any discomfort in the house, Megan and Michael limit public exhibitions of affection for the privacy of their bedroom. Tyler, who is currently single, abstains from entertaining possible brides in the common areas.
Rian Geller, 41, from Houston, Texas, and his wife Tiffany, 42, had the similar rules of the house when, together with their two pre -teenage children, they moved with Geller’s ex, Adam, 48, in 2022.
“At first it was uncomfortable,” said Geller, who ended his romance for years with Adam to marry Tiffany in 2021. Despite their breakup, Adam welcomed the couple, as well as the children of Tiffany, Brianna and Cutter, of a previous relationship, at their four-bedroom residence, free.
“All the parents of the children together,” Geller, a professional dog walker, struck. She and Tiffany recently moved to her house, but Adam visits every Sunday for family dinners. “Adam is the figure of the father of the children, and he and Tiffany are the best friends.”
Taylor Marie and Jessi Green, from Alabama, enjoy a similar bond.
Marie, 29, a nurse and mother of three boys, married Green’s former director, Taylor Lee, a 3 -year -old truck, in 2023.
That June, the couple opted for the co-residence with Green, 31, a mother of two girls, including a daughter Anna, whom she shares with Lee, and her new husband, 32-year-old Corey, also for the sake of her combination of five. The little ones go from 10 to 2 years.
Anna, the eldest son of the mixed crew, loves her new normal, saying -in the publication: “It’s a lot of fun because I don’t have to change homes like before, and now I’m with all my family, who lives with all my brothers at the same time.”
To make sure that the tween, as well as his younger sister and three minor brothers, experience a happy and stable childhood is the glue that joins the adults who made together.
“Initially, we did not get along well or to copaent,” said Green. She and Lee divorced a decade ago. “But with our husbands constantly on the road, they are only at home four days every month, we decided to live together and raise our children as a big family would only make life easier.”
And less expensive.
“We evenly divide our $ 4,500 monthly bills, we also share the cost of groceries, school supplies and clothing for children,” Marie said.
She and Green usually give social media fans their unconventional configuration through their Tiktok profile, @cheaperbythecoparents.
“We treat all children the same,” said Marie, “everyone is loved and treated equally.”
“They have four parents, all their brothers and a huge extensive family,” Green said. “It’s about love and unity.”
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